Thursday, September 11, 2008

9-11 Editorial

I am posting this editorial because I think it is very fitting for today. I hope the author doesn't mind. It was written by MMCM Kirk W. Waldron, United States Navy.

8:46 am, 11 September 2008-09-11

I deliberately chose to start this editorial at this exact time. Dramatic effect or an appropriate time, you can make that decision on your own. For the record, I am a die-hard conservative Republican, strong national defense and traditional family values driven, active duty member of the finest Navy in the world. Twenty-one years of active service with seven 6 month or longer deployments around the world, flying the colors and supporting a war that has been going on for the last 17 years, not just the last 7. In six of those seven deployments, my ship has launched aircraft fully loaded with weapons and recovered them fully unloaded after doing what was necessary to fulfill our orders. I have never cheered or smiled at the thought of what that meant in terms of the toll on human life, but I have never doubted the necessity or the rightness of what I was a part of. My personal politics are derived from my adult life experiences, rooted in the values and teachings of my upbringing, and I don’t feel compelled to justify or apologize for who I am. I do enjoy a good discussion, but today, my politics don’t matter.

From the front door of the office building were I work here in Washington DC, I can see the Washington Monument and the US Capital Building. I can scan across the horizon from those symbols of American pride and point to the exact location of Arlington Cemetery and just down the hill, the Pentagon. Right now, at this exact moment, there is a ceremony going on at the Pentagon. There is a huge flag draped over the side of the building. It covers a new stone wall that replaced the gaping, charred opening blasted into the side of that building by people who saw and still see that massive stone building as the heart and strength of our country’s worldwide military influence.

The memorial built to honor those who lost their lives in the Pentagon and on the plane that was used as a weapon against our country is simple yet powerful. The gravel crunches under your feet as you wander between 184 individual benches and reflecting pools. To those of us who choose to remember, rather than forget and move on, it re-enforces our resolve and determination of the necessity of taking the fight to the enemy to protect our home land from a repeat of the tragedy of seven years ago.

But to those of us who truly choose to remember, the memorial is really the wall rebuilt, adorned with a flag. The image of that flag first being draped over the blackened stone is burned into my mind. It still brings a lump to my throat and a tear to my eyes remembering the pride and unity and resolve we all felt at that time. I only wish it had that effect on more of my friends, family and fellow Americans, but I think too many have chosen to forget the images and feeling they had seven years ago.

The media has determined for us that showing those images and bringing up those old feelings is bad, so those pictures and videos are locked away. It would be too traumatic to see them again. I agree whole heartedly that is would be traumatic, BUT invite them use my Webster’s dictionary to discover why they are so wrong.

Traumatic (adj) of, having the nature of, or resulting from a trauma.
Traumatic (n) a medicine useful in the treatment of wounds (obs)

Perhaps I am old and obsolete, like the noun definition of the word. Or maybe we as a country need a dose of medicine. The wound is not a pile of rubble on the ground in downtown New York. It’s not scattered debris across a green pasture in Pennsylvania or a hole through the side of the Pentagon. The real wound is the hatred and divisiveness and separation that is overwhelming us as a country. It’s so much worse, so much more damaging than anything a group of terrorists did or ever could do to us. And we are doing it to ourselves. If we don’t find some medicine for it quickly, or even worse, refuse to be treated out of spite or pure stubbornness, I am more and more afraid every day that it could turn out to be terminal.

How did my country go from unity through tragedy, strength and resolve in the face of despair, fear, and vulnerability, and patriotism like never before experienced in my lifetime and probably not seen since World War II, to the sorry and embarrassing state it is in now. Finger pointing, criticizing, slandering or outright lying, creating division for the sake of personal or political gain, arguing for the sake of arguing, and probably the worst; denial that all of the above hurts us all and pretending that it can somehow create a change that will heal the wound. All sides of the political, religious, gender and ideological line are guilty. And most of us contribute in some way to the infection that keeps the wound open without realizing we are doing it.

The Pentagon wall was rebuilt, the rubble in New York has been removed and there is green grass where there was once debris scattered across a field. The physical recovery is well underway, leaving a few scars to stir up a sense of remembrance and national unity for those willing to look and remember. The emotional recovery for those who lost family and loved ones on this day seven years ago and defending our country since then goes on. They are in my thoughts and prayers everyday and my hope is that their loss will never be forgotten or minimized by the passage of time or the political agenda of us, the debaters.

Today of all days, there can be no debate. Reach into your memory, pull out those pictures and images, and hopefully shed a tear. Then remember a flag raised in the dust and ruin by heroes in New York, remember a flag draped over a weakened wall in the Pentagon and the instant strength it provided to the wall and a country, remember the heroes who sacrificed themselves in Pennsylvania to save some of us in Washington DC and the monuments that identify us to the world. And above all else remember the millions of flags flown from the front porches, roofs and lawns in your own neighborhoods and towns. Remember how it felt to stand beside your neighbor, not against him.

And then try to remember it again tomorrow.

Saturday, September 06, 2008

Random Pictures

Long distance football draft.
This is serious business!
Did you know that cereal was this fascinating?
The main attraction at the Iwa Jima Memorial.
Can we get one of these?
It's the first morning of school and I am NOT going to smile for a picture!

Step Back in Time

Last week we got in the car for one of our famous "drives" and ended up about an hour away in Harper's Ferry, West Virginia. It is a neat little town nestled down where the Potomac & Shenandoa Rivers meet. We just strolled around and enjoyed the slow pace.

Harper's Ferry is a historic town in Jefferson County, West Virginia. It is situated at the confluence of the Potomac and Shenandoah Rivers, where the states of Maryland, Virginia, and West Virginia meet. The town is located on a low lying flood plain created by the two rivers, it is thus surrounded by higher ground on all sides.

(People were enjoying tubing on the slow river)

Historically, Harper's Ferry is best known for John Brown's raid on the Armory in 1859 and its role in the American Civil War. As of the 2000 census, the town had a population of 307. The lower part of Harper's Ferry is located within Harper's Ferry national Historical Park. Most of the remainder, which includes the higher, more populated area, is included in the separate Harper's Ferry District. Harper's Ferry is one of only a few towns that the Appalachian Trail passes directly through.


Of course we had to take a Hershey Ice Cream break.


Enjoyable Day!

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Random News

I was recently told that I need to blog more. My blogging usually consists of more photo's than words, but lately I have been forgetting my camera and so I guess I will just have to write about what is new. Right now our life is just kind of random, but here it goes.
We finally got internet, cable, and phone. The internet didn't work for three days after we had it installed, but now we have everything except we can't access our e-mail or any other settings. I can't tell you how much time has been wasted sitting on hold and listening to bad music and annoying announcements. Now we are having problems with our phone and after many more minutes on hold, they are just going to send another technician out to fix it. Add that to the four technicians that have come to the house to "look" at the leak we had in the basement which filled a big Rubbermaid tub every 3 days, and I can tell you that I am over it. They fixed the leak by putting new pipes in.
We went to our new ward. We feel like the Grandpa & Grandma of the ward. There are so many young military couples and probably 50% of the congregation is under age 8. We have met many people from Idaho that are in our ward. We've had quite a few "it's a small world" moments also. People here seem pretty friendly. The kids are getting to know other kids during the youth activities.
I guess the BIG NEWS of the week is that we closed on our house in Virginia Beach. We did okay considering the market that we we were up against. We are just so relieved to be done with the whole process. It was kind of sad Thursday night when we went to the house to get a few items that were left. It was sad, but it also didn't seem like our house without furnishings. It was empty and it echoed. We were lucky that we got to visit with a few friends during our very short trip. It's only been three weeks, but it was like we'd been gone for much longer.
The kids are doing good. Nellysa turned 16 and got a set of wheels. She hopes that she'll get 4 wheels next time. She and Kelby have both been riding their bikes and they both have a pretty good case of road rash. Kelby was also informed by the friendly base police that he has to wear a helmet while riding on base. Now, I'm sure that his Mom didn't tell him anything like that every time that he went to ride.
Well, I think that is about it for random news. Hopefully I'll remember my camera so you don't have to get a library card to read these long books that I end up writing.
Oh, one other thing YEA PHELPS!!!

Saturday, August 09, 2008

New House

Well, here are some pictures of our new house. We have been here two weeks now, but were without internet until the other day. These pics are taken before we got our household goods.
We live in Maryland on an Army base. The house is a large 4 bedroom house w/ a two car garage. I have a front porch and I love sitting out there especially during rain storms. It smells so good (fresh air & rain). I will get a picture of the front of the house soon.

This is the living room on the main floor. The house sits on a slope, so from the front it looks like a one story house, but from the back, it is two story. The living room wall on the right is all windows.
This is the kitchen. The dining room is on the left and has windows surrounding it. I have not figured out what to do with all of these cupboards.The front door is on the right of this stairwell. It goes down, turns, and goes down some more.
This is the family room at the bottom of the stairs. The patio doors go out to a nice covered patio.
The hallway downstairs. The two doors on the right are bedrooms, the door at the end of the hall is the bathroom, around the corner is a laundry room, and the door on the left is the storage room. This is the storage room. Behind me is more storage area that goes back under the stairs.

The view along the right side of the house.The back of the house.

The view out back.
There are groundhogs here and they are huge. We also had a bunch of vultures that would sit in that dead tree on the right side of the last picture. It was really erie. I think we are going to enjoy living here.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

Goodbye's

Just when I thought that I could trust the young women in our ward (especially MY daughter), they throw a surprise in the picture.
Every time I asked the girls what they were doing for activities, they told me that they were working on their "camp flag". Considering all the time they spent on the "camp flag", I was sure this would be the ultimate flag. On Wednesday night, my daughter reminded me that there was a meeting for the parents after the activity. Hmmm.... I was the only parent besides the leaders in attendance. It turns out, the "meeting" was to present me with a quilt that the young women made. They even had a "camp" sleep-over to sew their squares. They each picked out the background for their square and their picture and names were on it. Nellysa was pretty proud that she had kept this from me for over a month by using "camp" excuses.
Today, friends from our ward had a farwell open house. It was really nice to have a chance to visit with friends that we have known over the 12 years of living in the ward. Thank you to everyone who shared in our lives here in Virginia.





No party could be complete without people being thrown in the pool. Kelby was the first and then Nellysa followed. Of course, there were no "big kids" out there in the middle of it right Shawn?!

Thank you friends & ward family!

Sunday, June 29, 2008

Kitchen

Half of the old kitchen. Diego is supervising.
Presenting...... The NEW kitchenOld wall New wall & light

I think it is nice. Wish we could have done this years ago.